Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Summer Pictures Part 2


Silly Kate

Super Fun Uncle Jared...If his goal was to make all the nieces fall in love with him, he succeeded

Crazy Kate

Planetarium with Emma

Professional Pictures by Aunt Heather with a dance party before

The BIGGEST cardboard box house ever known to kids....these make me happy :)

Homemade Slides

Machine Pitch for Carston

First Father and Son Campout

Trip to Ikea

Monday, October 24, 2011

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Summer Pictures


FINALLY! The Blue Swing at Grandma Gayla's! Aaron's mom told Macy about this swing at Peyton's birthday party and she asked me about it everyday until we went :)







Stewart Falls

This summer was the best summer EVER! I loved having both of my sisters here. Chelsey stayed all summer long, Heather came with her kids for a month (and husband for less), and it was the first summer my mom wasn't working. We partied EVERY DAY! I seriously loved it. I love these awesome women in my family.


Aaron and I both like to hike (our spouses don't feel quite the same :). We decided to take 7 kids up to Stewart Falls. I was a little nervous about how things would go because I wouldn't have John's support, but I figured if it all went sour we could just turn around and head back. The kids did AMAZING! Macy and Kate walked the entire way up there, and Kate rode on my back for only a quarter of the way back. They had fun looking for interesting things (we took a million pictures of tipped over trees and roots sticking out of the ground). We counted over 20 butterflies. Hallie fell lots of times but she did her best to be tough. We had a nice lunch at the top. And then we headed back down. Someone at the top told us that if we took another trail, it would be shorter. We decided to take all the kids down that way while Aaron went the other way and got the car. It was nice and it was shorter. But there was this one part near the end that gave me nightmares. I literally had nightmares that night of my children being dragged away in the raging river. The trail became VERY narrow and if you went off the trail, you would fall right into the river. My mom about had a heart attack over it. And I did too. When we got down to the bottom there was a sign that said the trail we had been on was closed. So yeah, don't go that way if you're taking lots of little kids who could have easily fallen in. It haunted me for awhile how close we had been to a tragedy. Other than that though, we had a lot of fun and I was very impressed with how great my kids were on such a big hike.

Saturday, October 22, 2011

August Sayings

AUGUST SAYINGS
CARSTON
*Carston thought it was the funniest thing in the world when he peed his bed one night. He hasn't done that for several years. He couldn't wait to tell everyone about it because he thought it was so crazy funny. He told me several times, Grandma, Daddy, etc... I'm glad he got such a kick out of it :)
*I was going shopping to get the kids clothes to wear for pictures. Carston said he wanted to come along. I found out later the only reason he wanted to come was because he didn't want me picking him out a shirt he didn't want to wear! He takes after his dad and has quite the opinions on what is cool to wear and what is not. I finally talked him into a gray shirt with pockets and other stuff because 'it looked a little bit army."
*Carston will be starting at a new school this year and I don't think the kids will have a hard time figuring out his interests. Grandma took him to pick out a school outfit. He chose army shorts and an Air Force shirt. I took him to get new shoes and he picked out some camouflage ones. He also has a camo backback. Luckily I was able to talk him out of the camo shirt by finding the Air Force one :)
*Carston was able to participate in a great service project. His piano teacher invited him to be part of a concert for the Veteran's Rest Home. He went up there and played the piano. It was neat to hear him talk about it when he came home. You could feel how good he felt about doing something kind for people who truly appreciated it. Hopefully we can plan more ways to do that as a family.
*Carston learned how to swim under water while we were in Park City!

AVERY
*Avery chickened out going laser tagging when it was Carston's birthday. Apparently she regretted it because she was adamant about going this time around when we went with her Aunts and Uncles. Even though it meant missing the chance to play with Hallie, and that says a lot. She was super cute and stayed close to her mom and dad. She loved it :) I was happy that she had a desire to conquer the things that she was a little scared of because she didn't want to miss out on something exciting.
*Avery LOVES to read. She is getting so many books at the library now and she plows through them like no one's business. She will spend hours up in her bunk bed reading. She is very excited for school to start and loves to do learning with Macy or play school with the girls. I love it. I love hearing my kids say, "Just let me finish this chapter Mom!" It reminds me of myself :)
*Avery made friends with a little boy at the playground in Del Taco. About an hour after we left, she let out a big sigh and said, "I'm really going to miss that boy."
*I took the girls to The Chocolate for a special mommy date. They felt so special and were thrilled. Avery kept talking about all the decorating and furnishings and how much she loved them.

MACY
*Macy has been loving having her cousin Peyton to play with for the month. However, sometimes the two of them together makes for a lot of not listening to their mother's. One night after we found them deliberately disobeying we sat them down for a talk. When we asked them why they disobeyed, Peyton said, "Because Macy had a great idea!"
*Sometimes Macy is not super excited about our family rule of no one getting left out. Sometimes the last thing she wants to do is let Kate join the playing. Kate tried to come play with Macy and Peyton while they were at Grandma's house and Macy said, "K-ATE...go find Grandma! Grandma has a surprise for you!" It worked that time, but I don't think it will take too long for Kate to figure out that little trick.
*The kids and Emma were working on making their own movie with the video camera we gave Carston. Carston and Emma both wanted to be the directors. Emma was getting pretty upset with Carston because he wouldn't let her do something she wanted. Macy finally chimed in with her advice on how to handle the situation, "Just keep bothering him Emma!" Uh oh...hopefully she doesn't stick with the tactic for her teenage years :)
*My mom took Macy to the bathroom and told her she knew which one was the girls because it said "women." Macy wanted to know if the one for the boys said "Prince."
*One night I heard Macy talking to Carston. "Dad is the boss of you, and mom is the boss of me. Wait a minute....NO ONE is the boss of me!" And then she broke into song about how no one was her boss.
*Macy FINALLY had her first day of preschool! She could not wait! She loved it and looked so cute walking off with her huge backpack on her back.
*Macy is obsessed with Chelsey and Jared because they've been living in Utah for the summer. She loves spending time with them and is always wanting to be playing or snuggling with them.
*Macy is awesome in the water! She puts on her life jacket and takes off. She goes all over the place with no hesitation.
KATE
*Carston and Kate sit next to each other in the car. One day while driving Kate wanted me to take her bows out of her hair. I told her she would have to wait until we got there. Without missing a beat she said, "How 'bout Carson?" And without missing a beat, he took them out :) I love to see them being such good buddies with each other.
*Sadie threw up all over the kitchen floor. Kate said, "Sadie's pooping her spit!"
*I guess Kate decided she didn't want to wait for me to potty train her. I'd been thinking about it for awhile but we were having too much fun enjoying our summer to make the time for it. So she has been telling me when she needs to go, I'll take her, and then get quite the surprise when she goes potty on the toilet. It is awesome.
*Kate likes to dance gracefully during the Hymns at church :) It makes me smile every time.
*Kate fully potty trained herself! She doesn't have accidents unless I don't listen when she tells me she has to go. Like when we were shopping at the outlets in Park City. She told me. I didn't listen. She peed on the sidewalk.
*Kate is awesome in the water. She puts on her life jacket and goes on in with no hesitation. It is amazing!

Friday, October 21, 2011

Dear Kids

Dear Kids,
I want you know how much I LOVE being your mom. Everyday, I am seriously filled with joy that we get to be with each other every day. I think of how different things would be if we weren't homeschooling for most of school, and it fills me with gratitude that I get to spend so much time with all of you each day. Every once in awhile, there will be a day where you spend most of it away from me. On those days, I can't wait for you to get home and hear all about everything. I LOVE being with you. I thank Heavenly Father every night that we can do our schooling the way we do. I can't imagine doing it any other way.
I love each one of you. Each one of you push me in different ways to be better. I am grateful that I get to be your mom. I'm grateful that we can spend our lives together. Have I said how much I love to be with you? Maybe a little too much, but I want you to always know that there is nothing else I would rather be doing in my life.
Love Mom

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Cousins and Riverwood Splashpad!

We were so lucky to babysit cousins this summer for a few days. Callie, Bron, and Drake came to stay with us while their parents took Jace on a little trip. My kids were in heaven! They can not wait until these awesome kids become our next door neighbors. Their last day with us we went down to the splash pad they just put in at The Riverwoods. We looked a little crazy strolling in with 7 kids in swimsuits carrying their towels. They had a lot of fun though and it was a great way to spend the morning.



Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Avery Turned 6! (In July)

Avery turned 6 on July 6! She was very excited to plan her party this year. She spent some time looking over all the party ideas online and finally decided on a TinkerBelle Garden Fairy Party. I had to laugh about the one she decided on. It had almost no ideas on it other than decorating! She enjoyed setting everything up and I came up with some activities.


We sprayed everyone's hair with pink glitter, played Tinkerbelle, Tinkerbelle, Videa.....
We decorated our own "pots", got some "rain (water bottles with holes poked on the top), and planted some seeds....

We ate some "flowers" made with marshmallows and colored sugar....
We enjoyed the lights, the games (hide from the humans was the best! John closed his eyes and tried to catch the kids as they ran around), the presents, and the Fairy movie.We love you Avery! Our family would not be complete without you!

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

10 YEARS!


John and I celebrated our 10th anniversary in July. I can't believe that we have arrived at that milestone. When we were newlyweds, anyone who had been married 10 years was ancient in our eyes.

I thank my lucky stars everyday that I get to have this man as my partner in life. He is my best friend. Absolutely my best friend. Sometimes I am just in awe at what a blessing it is to be married to him. The other day, I was talking with him about a current weakness of mine. I was venting and asking his opinion on what steps he thought I could take to overcome it. And he was so sweet and kind. It would have been easy for him to become offended or take things personally or whatever. But he didn't. He showed me compassion and understanding and offered what wisdom he had on the subject. I turned to him later that night and told him how grateful I was for the way he responded. No one else in this world sees my weaknesses as up close and personal as my husband...and he still loves me. More importantly, he still likes me. And I like him too.

*I like that he makes me laugh, even when I'm crying
*I like that he wrestles with our kids every night
*I like that he is forgiving
*I like that he'll come to bed with me even if he isn't tired
*I like that he honors his parents
*I like that he is not rash in his actions or judgments
*I like that he is so incredibly patient
*I like that he helps me let go of all the unimportant stuff in life
*I like that he lets me spend hours at my parent's on Sunday
*I like that he is responsible
*I like that he chuckles when I've locked my keys in for the 3rd time in a week
*I like that he gives me a hug when I bash up his car
*I like that he can be direct and straightforward
*I like that he accepts and fulfills callings
*I like that he holds me when I cry
*I like that he has stood by me when things have been hard
*I like that he has been so understanding of this stage in our life when "I have to get out!"
*I like that he continues to improve his mind
*I like that he is supportive of me in making decisions for our kids, even when those involve homeschooling :)
*I like that he helps me unload all the groceries from the car
*I like that he is okay with our date being dinner and a stroll through the clearance at Target
*I like that he texts me during the day
*I like that he surprises me with gifts
*I like that he encourages me to develop new talents
*I like that I can rely on him for an honest opinion even if it isn't what I want to hear
*I like that he'll watch HGTV with me
*I like that he has high expectations for people
*I like that he is willing to coach a baseball team of 8 year olds
*I like that he has learned how to be a "girl dad" even though it does not come naturally
*I like that he gets excited for the kids to wake up Christmas morning
*I like that he is ambitious
*I like that he supports me staying home
*I like that he tries his best to come up with "feelings" to share with me...it has made for some good laughs
*I like that he is gentle and kind
*I like that he thinks of me when someone gives him chocolate
*I like to hear him sing
*I like to see how much he enjoys our kids
*I like that he still thinks it is funny to tickle me
*I like that he still thinks it is funny to hide in the dark so he can scare me
*I like that he tries to "fix my problems"
*I like that he is always on board for the family activity even if it isn't really his thing, like hiking
*I like that if he doesn't know the solution or answer, he will figure it out
*I like that he has confidence in himself

I know this sounds like some sappy list. But it isn't to me. Not always, but mostly, a happy marriage can be a decision you make. My husband looks at me and sees my strengths. He also sees my weaknesses. But he chooses to view those as areas where I have potential of becoming great. That is the kind of spouse I want to be. We both have weaknesses. We both have things we do that could drive each other crazy from annoyance, or depressed from hurt feelings. I've always responded most to expressions of love through words. That is not John's strength. So I could have been miserable thinking that he didn't love me and feeling like he didn't care (and there were indeed times where that was the case). But in the end, I made a decision to open my eyes and see all the other ways he shows his love for me. And it has made all the difference. My husband is who he is. And I love him. Every single part of him. I am so grateful for him, so grateful for every day we have to spend with each other. I want to live my life cherishing this blessing that is my husband.

Friday, September 16, 2011

Changes are coming...

We are building a house. It has been quite the ordeal to actually get it started. I've been very frustrated and stressed about it at times. But Heavenly Father has helped me and I've learned some valuable lessons. And now....they've started building our house! We are really excited about starting another adventure in our life, and yet we will be sad to leave the house we have now. This house has seen us through a lot of wonderful times and big changes. Our ward has been amazing and I have learned so much as I've watched and served the people in our ward. So I know there will be some waterworks when the move actually happens. But we are excited. We have a great location in Lindon. We will still be close to family (especially my mom and dad :). We will have some amazing neighbors (John's brother and wife and their kids that our kids are CRAZY about). I will have a room right off the kitchen to serve as our school room. We won't have three kids sharing 1 room :) We are excited. We feel very blessed to be able to do it, but we also know that if we couldn't make this move, there would be no reason why we couldn't be perfectly happy in our current home. Right now, the house is scheduled to be done either the end of November or the beginning of December. Here is the progress so far: