I'm the Best Pianist in the World!

Everyone is so nice to wish me well. I'm starting to wonder if I should go to the doctor because I think I've been sick for quite awhile. I'd have to actually find a doctor to go to though since the only one I've seen since I was 18 is the one who delivers my babies.

So my plans for yesterday of laying around got cancelled. A young woman in my ward called and asked if I could accompany her while she sang a solo at her school. That night. Her other one cancelled on her. Any of you that know me well know how terrifying the thought of playing in public is for me. I was the pianist for Relief Society only because the ward was literally desperate. And even then, it took me several months of playing before I felt like I had my nerves under control. So I asked her if she had tried another girl in the ward. She already had. I felt bad for her, so I told her to bring her music over and I would see if I thought I could play it. I made her go home while I practiced because I was too nervous (or prideful) to play in front of her. I decided to do it. That night, I was really nervous, but in a way, I didn't really care. Too bad I couldn't inform my dang leg. It was literally bouncing up and down because I was shaking. I'm such a dork. And of course I made mistakes. But even if I may have looked and sounded a little bit stupid, I'm proud of myself for doing it. I want to conquer the things I fear. Maybe if I do it a few more times I won't make a complete fool of myself. Probably not though.

In good times and bad, in sickness and in health...Parenthood

My sister has been harrassing me for a new post. Well, here it is. Avery, Macy, and I are all still in our pajamas. And I have no intention of getting dressed, putting on make-up, or doing my hair. Carston is only dressed because he had to go to preschool. I have been up the last couple of nights with babies and sick kids. Macy's first tooth is trying to break through. Carston has a sore throat and cough keeping him up. And Avery had a fever last night and was throwing up. And of course, I am sick myself. And I'm sure I won't be getting better anytime soon with the amount of sleep I've been getting. I'm exhausted to say the least. So there is my post. And I will refrain from posting a correlating picture.

I Rule

I beat the entire Lego Star Wars game. With no cheats. And no codes. I am seriously incredible. It took a lot of hard work, time, and sacrifice to get to this point, but my persistence has paid off. I would like to thank John for buying the game for Carston for Christmas. I would like to thank Carston for choosing to use his 1/2 hour electronic-time each day to play it. I would like to thank Brett for taking my kids for 2 hours of playgroup while I came home and finished it all up. I would like to thank my Dad for encouraging me in my pursuit of nerdness. But most of all, I would like to thank myself, for obtaining 17 "superkit pieces" (one for each level) and 177 "minikit pieces" (10 for each level). I am so proud of myself for unlocking the secret door and beating the mystery level. I don't want to be prideful, but I think that I just might be the most incredible person right now at this exact moment. I know that sounds cocky, but sometimes who just have to own up to it.

For History

I know it seems like I'm obsessed with my Grandma and her death. I don't quite understand why I feel so driven to try and capture what she meant to me and others. It is just hard. She was here, and now she is gone. Sometimes our mortality just gets to me. I'm just so sad that others won't continue to know her and be able to have the blessing of being loved by her. So my sister Chelsey wrote this on another blog; she is just so talented in using words to express thoughts and emotions. I want to have it for myself because it so fully expresses what is in my own heart. So I'm posting it here not really for others to read, but just so I know where to find it when I want it. I promise that my next post will be about something different :) Thanks Cho for expressing what I've been trying to for so long. You are the best and I love you.

Grandma I miss you so much! The day you left changed our home forever. Without your bright spirit there, there is a void that just can’t be filled. It’s hard to walk in your room and not see your face light up and your eyes sparkle.Your bed just looks so desolate. There are days I would give anything to just run in and hear you say, “Hello dear. Dick, it’s our sweet little angel…” All the times that I spent with you reading, painting your nails, looking through photographs, fixing your hair, feeding you, and just talking with you are memories I never want to forget. I learned more at the side of your bed than I could ever learn at any church or university. You are an incredible teacher because you taught through love and example. Grandma you taught me:
• Happiness is a choice that comes from being grateful.
• There is no one that you cannot love.
• Holding hands with your husband keeps you close.
• To be clean and orderly shows character.
• Complaining won’t solve anything.
• It’s important to take interest in everyone’s lives--- make them feel important.
• To relate everything back to the Savior—there is nothing he cannot help you with.
• Prayer is real. It works. Pray for others. Include details in your prayers, and know that God hears you.
• It takes humility to let others serve you.
• Smile and laugh even when it hurts. Laughter gets you through hard times.
• Don’t criticize. You’ll find more meaning in your relationships if you just accept people the way they are and appreciate all the good things they do.
• Listen to people. Don’t focus the conversation entirely on you.
• Be open about life experiences. Know that others may learn from difficult things you’ve been through.
• Always have a temple recommend. Even when you are 89 and can’t walk to the bathroom keep a current temple recommend. Show your dedication to being worthy.
• Celebrate everything there is to be celebrated. Life is wonderful. Embrace it.
• Focus your life on your family. They are the only ones that will be there in the end standing by your bed saying goodbye.
• Keep your mind active. Read all that you can and make the effort to talk to people.
• A phone call and a message may be just what somebody needs- never repress a kind thought.
• Don’t put value on worldly possessions even if you like nice things.
• Don’t be selfish. Think about others even if you think you are in need.
• Appreciate nature and the beautiful things in life. Even if you can only see it through a window.
• Love people. They can see it in your eyes if you love them. Find a way to truly love every one.
• Build people up. Let them know you believe in them whether it’s an intimidated grandchild or a qualified nurse.
• Be honest. Never change the truth to benefit yourself.
• No matter how old you get don’t be too old to love to dance to the beat of the music. Even if your body won’t allow you to move more than your hands.
• Find joy in children and babies. Even if they don’t go crazy about you recognize the beauty, innocence, and humor of children.
• Don’t bad mouth anyone. Nobody wants to hear you speak poorly about someone else.
• Work hard. Cook for your family and show your love for them by serving them.
• Don’t allow personal illnesses and setbacks to keep you from living a meaningful life full of love. • Stand by people, like your husband, even when he’s struggling.
• It’s ok to be 89 and still get jealous when someone says your sweetheart is cute, even if they are 50 years younger and have no intention of making a move.
• Dr. Pepper really is the best medicine.
• To sit on your porch, with the man you love, having a drink is always something to smile about. • Mostly I learned to love. Love fully. Love deeply. Love without holding back. Love everyone.